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The Torch
An Interview With Luba Lukova Designer of the New "Say So" Logo

"I think art should reflect what is going on in the real world," said Luba Lukova, the designer of the Alliance's new SAY SO logo. Lukova's posters have gained international acclaim for their interpretation of social issues such as those addressed by the Alliance. "I am not an isolated, distant artist," she said. I keep my eyes, ears and, most importantly my heart open to what is happening around us and then I express what I feel..." [Read more.]

FAQ: Why do some people stay in unhealthy or violent relationships?

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Why do some people stay in unhealthy or violent relationships?

If abusive or unhealthy relationships are so bad, then why do some people stay in them? Why don't they just stop spending time with their friend or break up with the person and stop seeing them? Sometimes it may be hard to get out of an abusive relationship. This is because violent relationships often go in cycles. After a person is violent, he or she may apologize and promise never to hurt you again, and even say that they will work on the relationship. It may be a while before that person acts violently again. These ups and downs can make it hard to leave a relationship.

It's hard to leave someone you care about. You may be scared or ashamed to admit that you are in an abusive relationship, or you may be simply scared to be alone without that person. You may be afraid that no one will believe you, or that your friend or partner will hurt you more if you tell someone. Whatever the reasons, leaving an unhealthy relationship is hard but something you must do. You will need help to do it.


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Voices and Faces:
Bonnie Quillin
Bonnie Quillin, Flight Attendant
"I was raped thirty years ago. There was so much shame then, and there still is now. But when I started to talk about it, it freed me."
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Alliance Executive Director Harriet Lessel closes the Speak Out
Alliance Executive Director Harriet Lessel closes the Speak Out